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Thursday, February 22nd marks the 20th anniversary of Michelle’s accident. For over 18 years she has been living at home with us. This is not the life we would have chosen but it is the most meaningful life we could ever have. All of the pretenses and posturing that occur in every day life have been stripped away. We are living with someone who wakes up every day with a smile and thanks God that she is still alive. She tells us how she is surrounded by love and lets everyone know how much she loves them. Being in her presence brings out the better part of all of us. When she was unconscious our neighbor, Charlotte Baecher, wrote a poem that describes the transformation Michelle has brought to all of us:
In her sleep
her spirit is one with His
both so alive to the other
What immense transactions are going on
undistracted
by mind and urge and sight
a complete “hearing” and surrender,
a knowledge we cannot know or guess.

But now we ask Him, please to bless
her even more – and give her back
to us and all distractions
a messenger transformed by you
to lift us who love her
to where she has been.

THANKS TO ALL OF YOU WHO HAVE SUPPORTED US THESE 20 YEARS

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Update: PBS World “Your Health: A Sacred Matter” with LOC Marilyn Martone to air July 7
June 22, 2017 News 0

A reminder that Lady of Charity Marilyn Martone and her daughter Michelle are featured in a new PBS documentary film called “Your Health: A Sacred Matter”. Marilyn will speak in the section on caregiving (about 12 minutes towards the end of the film).

NATIONAL PREMIERE
Friday 7/7/17 at 7 PM, Eastern Time
World Channel

The World Channel is found on many cable and satellite services; check your local listings or visit worldchannel.org to find the station in your area.

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I was in Houston Texas this weekend at a conference on Religion and Medicine. On Saturday evening there was the premier screening of a film entitled “Your Health: A Sacred Matter.” It will view on PBS in May and Michelle and I are in it as are some of Michelle’s team members as well as members of our parish. You can see the trailer at the following web site. You can also check the web site as to when it will be shown in your area. yourhealthasacredmatter.com

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Tomorrow Michelle turns 40 years old. She was 21 when she was hit by a car and suffered a severe brain injury. Check this site for lots of pictures from her big celebration.

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Thought you might enjoy seeing this clip of Michelle at Pal-O-Mine where she goes horseback riding every week. What a special place!
http://www.fios1news.com/longisland/push-pause-oc-pal-o-mine-partners#.V4j1Qa6zLAp

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After two surgeries and a year of recovery I’m finally back to horseback riding. What a sense of freedom!

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Michelle came home today. She spent a week in hospital therapy and is doing well. The therapists told me she walked 50 feet yesterday with a high walker. This is something she hasn’t done in a long time. The surgery was extremely intricate and difficult and we are all very grateful to the staff at NY Presbyterian Hospital. And then there’s Michelle. She is one tough cookie. Not one pain pill the entire time she was there and of course everyone fell in love with her.

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On Monday Michelle will again have spinal surgery at New York Presbyterian Hospital. They deflated the cyst in her spine in March but fluid has again filled the cyst. Now she is having surgery to put a stent in her cyst so this will not happen again. It is too dangerous to remove the cyst. Please keep her in your prayers.

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It’s been awhile since I blogged. That’s because I have spent the last two to three years navigating a frustrating, complacent, and at times, brilliant health-care system. Michelle suffered a severe TBI in 1998 and had made remarkable progress to the point where she was walking with a walker. Then about three years ago her physical ability began to deteriorate. She developed severe spasticity, went from a minimal assist to a maximum assist transfer, had trouble standing, and developed high blood pressure.

 

I took her to her neurologist who referred her to a neurosurgeon for testing. The neurosurgeon told me that frankly he did not know why I was there. He said, “I don’t diagnose, I fix.” He then sent me to another neurologist who specialized in movement issues. This neurologist recommended a CAT scan and an MRI of her head. The MRI technician would not do an MRI without knowing what type of shunt she had. I did not know so the MRI was never done although the CAT scan showed there were no problems with her shunt.

 

Several months later she went to the ER on Christmas day. There was a lump on the side of her neck where the tubing of her shunt ran and she was having terrible outbursts. They did another CAT scan there and another test on her shunt. She was in the ER for over five hours and after four hours began to have loud outbursts. The tests showed that there were no problems and my discharge notes were on how to control temper tantrums in children. Obviously, the ER physician had no understanding of brain injury and I resolved I would never enter that hospital again.

 

I found a new team of physicians at New York Presbyterian Hospital. I went to the hospital on Long Island to pick up the copies of her tests from Christmas and as I read them I saw that there was the possibility of a shunt fracture. No one had told me this. When I took the reports and the scans to her new neurosurgeon he did follow-up tests and indeed it was found that her shunt was fractured in her abdominal area. The shunt was surgically repaired and afterwards she made some progress, (she could now do weight bearing) but she still had a great deal of spasticity. I contacted a new neurologist at New York Presbyterian and contacted the hospital in Chicago for her medical records in order to try to determine what type of shunt she had. The medical records were sent, I was told, but they never arrived. I then contacted the Chicago office of the neurosurgeon who had done the original shunt surgery. The surgeon was no longer there but his partner informed me that her shunt was not MRI compatible. We were therefore limited to only CAT scans. We did CAT scans of her head and spine and all seemed well.

 

I still wanted to know what was causing these symptoms and I still had trouble accepting that her shunt was not MRI compatible since the shunt was implanted in 1998 and she had had an MRI in 1999. I had my own copies of the MRI done in 1999 and I took them to her new neurologist. He was able to tell from these that she could have an MRI. I also tracked down the neurosurgeon who had put the shunt in and found him in Florida. I faxed him his operating notes and he too verified that her shunt was non-programmable and an MRI could be done. The MRI technicians were hesitant but her new neurologist informed them that it was safe to do an MRI. The MRIs of her brain came back showing no problems. But then we did an MRI of her spine and discovered that she had a large cyst in her spine. We finally found the cause of her symptoms and on March 11th she will undergo spine surgery.

 

The neuro team on Long Island was only treating symptoms and not getting to the cause of the problem. The neurosurgeon in Chicago, who probably never tried to find out what type of shunt she had but played it safe by saying that her shunt was not MRI compatible, delayed the process by a year while the cyst kept growing.  The team in the city followed the symptoms until they finally found the cause. I hope someone will learn from this posting.

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Thanks to all for the birthday wishes. Michelle had a wonderful birthday. In Michelle style, she always has a smile on her face. She brings us all joy.

 

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Michelle’s Birthday 2014 Happy “38”

 

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